• October 2026
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    The weekend started early with my cousin’s wedding on Friday.  The weather was lovely, as was the venue, but not so much as the bride and groom who outshone it all. It was a really beautiful occasion, and so wonderful to be able to celebrate with Mr & Mrs Filiva’a.

    With this ring I thee wed

    In a thoroughly unrelated piece of news, we finally replaced our stove. The very first night when it took over an hour to boil a pot of water I knew the hob would need changing, and the oven proved to have multiple hot and cool spots that made baking challenging, so the whole thing needed a change. But we had things going on and we could work around it. Still, the time had come, and the long weekend sale meant we got a third off the price.

    The new oven

    The one grumble I have is that the lower oven is a touch too close to the floor, but we can fix that. By which I mean my darling husband can. Sometime. I also wanted the red rather than the black, but a $1,000 discount makes it easy to forget that.

    Beyond those niggles, I’m delighted. It’s a joy to use. I’ve made a quiche (homemade pastry and silverbeet from our garden) and this morning I’ve made a batch of marmalade. We’ll see how it goes, but if it doesn’t set it’ll be a lack of pectin rather than the cooktop. Our oranges don’t have any pips at all, which is great for eating but problematic for marmalade. I’ve tried using lemon pips instead so we’ll see if it works.

    Quiche (looking like Pacman with a slice out)
    Hot marmalade cooling in the jars

    I think that’s enough for the kitchen this weekend, but in an extra bonus I now have a functioning sink and benchtop in my laundry. I don’t have a before photo to hand, but when we got here there was a sink and a tiny shelf and just enough room for a washing machine. No bench, no cupboards, no space for anything. It’s taken a lot of effort but here’s the end result, just missing a bit of paint and the splashback now, then it’s done.

    my functional laundry

    I typed all the above hours ago, so one little update as I go to post this: the marmalade was not looking right so I reboiled it with a little jam setting sugar and it’s now good. I don’t know whether the extra pectin was the answer, or if it just needed a longer boil but the five jars left are setting well.

    5 jars of marmalade and the last of this year’s oranges

    Quite a busy weekend, all round.

  • October 2026
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    Just a brief update to confirm what you might already have seen in the news: the job cuts are going ahead, and yes mine is one of the many that are affected.

    I was off having a scan while the announcement was made so I haven’t caught up with the details as yet, but essentially I will now be putting in an expression of interest to keep my job; failing that to get another job. If I’m unsuccessful in both of those attempts then my last day at NLNZ will be 30 November.

    It’s not unexpected news, so we carry on. I’d ask that you all keep everyone affected in mind, not just me. If I’m successful in staying it means that someone else wasn’t. There’s loss all around in this, that’s the way it’s designed. We’ll just have to do what we can and see how it plays out.

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    I haven’t been doing anything scary, just raising – or growing- hair. Slowly,  very slowly, but it’s coming along even if it’s still a bit thin.

    marginally longer hair

    Meanwhile the garden is continuing to wake up. The latest tree to bloom is the apple.

    apple blossoms

    The pear blossoms are starting to break up

    pear blossoms

    As are the peach blossoms, which annoyingly are all right at the top of the tree.

    peach blossoms

    The nashi is looking good, lots of blossoms so hopefully a better harvest this season

    nashi blossoms

    Then at the bottom of the garden we have baby plums forming. Not getting too excited here yet, though, since we had lots at this stage last ear too and then lost most of them before they ripened

    baby plums

    Then in the glasshouse we have the first tomato flowers and a first reddening strawberry

    tiny yellow tomato flowers
    strawberries

    The weather is still very changeable, most days both wet and dry, cool and hot, but overall getting warmer. Summer is coming.

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    In spinnng, sometimes a yarn is said to have a halo. It happens when there are tiny fibres that aren’t fully spun in which create an almost invisible extra width to the strand od spun and plied yarn. While it’s barely visible, it makes a difference when you knit with it because it adds a softness and fuzziness to the fabric.  That can be a good thing for some projects, but it can make cables and lacework fuzzy and undefined.

    A couple of weeks ago I  noticed the top of my head felt different.  I couldn’t see anything in the mirror but my fingers knew there was a change. A few days later there was what I’d call peach fuzz. It all seemed to be white and was only visible in the sense that it made the top of my head less shiny, more blurry, but not noticeably unless you were looking for it.

    A few days ago the pale blur had turned darker and there was a defined hairline, but the hair itself was still difficult to see.

    Here’s a photo from yesterday. At this dstance you’ll see nothing much but if you zoom in you can start seeing the growth.

    fuzzy not-quite-visible hair growth

    This morning I’d say it’s similar to a number 1 buzz cut, though the hairs are very soft.

    It’s going to take time, but it’s happening.  I guess I’ll have hair for Christmas

  • October 2026
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    Today I looked out the window and saw the peach tree has started blooming.

    It’s a bit hard to see in the photo so I got a close up.

    peach blossoms

    Sarah wanted to share some photos of the peach blossoms of the trees my great-grandfather cultivated but the comments section won’t allow attachments so here they are: aren’t they beautiful? I wish I had them here.

    great-grandfather’s double pink peach flower, in Christchurch
    great-grandfather’s double white peach blossom in Christchurch

    On my way to the peach tree I caught the first signs of blossom on the pear tree. It’s probably going to burst tomorrow.

    pear blossoms still closed up tight but not for too much longer

    What else did I see in the garden?

    The fig is developing leaves.

    fig leaves still bundled tight

    I also spotted an iris I didn’t know we had. The blue is so pale it looks grey.

    pale grey-blue irises

    The new plum tree has more foliage…

    leaves on the black doris plum

    …and our thornless blackberry from the old house is funally showing the first signs of growth in its new home.

    new green leaves after months of dormancy for the blackberry

    Spring is definitely here an the garden is enjoying it, though it remains to be seen how much it will enjoy the dry summer forecast to come.

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    Our established plum tree is the first of the deciduous fruit trees to get started and it’s in full bloom.

    heavily flowering plum tree

    This tree didn’t fruit particularly well last year but it’s had a trim and it’s getting more light than it’s had in years thanks to the neighbours thinning the trees on their border. It’ll be interesting to see ho it des this year.

    Our new plum is also waking up, small as it is.

    black doris plum with first tiny leaves

    The other trees are still dormant,  but that will change, probably when I’m not looking.

    pear tree in the foreground,  apple and peach behind, plum at the back right. The lemon tree belongs to the neighbour

    It’s been a long week, mostly thinking about the change proposal at work. But today I sumitted the main bits of feedback I wanted to cover and I feel lighter for having gotten it done. I have another week to add more if I want to, but I’m happy that I’ve made the arguments I most needed to. How much difference it will make remains to be seen but I’ve done what I can and I can have a restful weekend without dwelling on it.

    It’s a bit stormy right now but I believe we’re in for a nice weekend. I hope so.

  • October 2026
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    I heard from the oncologist this afternoon, following yesterday’s expert meeting where my case was discussed.

    Long story short, they think the growth in the lymph nodes is more likely a sign of the cancer than not. They can’t be 100% sure, but that’s their opinion. It’s weird for this particular cancer to be in the lymphatic system rather than organs, and equally weird that it’s growing so slowly, but these are both good news for me, so long may it continue to be so.

    At this stage the plan is to let my body recover from the chemotherapy, keep doing regular scans and watch for symptoms. Every treatment has side effects, and right now nothing is happening fast, so there’s no need to rush into anything new.

    If I do get symptoms, or if the scans show anything worrying then I have options. We can try radiation therapy, or we can try a different type of chemotherapy,  or both. Those are decisions for later.

    For now I’m comfortable that I’m being monitored and I have a chance to catch my breath.

    Which is fortunate, given that I may be about to lose my job. The library has just released a plan to cut staff and my job is one that’s affected.  We have two weeks to make submissions to change their minds. If that doesn’t work – and realistically it probably won’t, at least not for everyoneaffected – we then have to put in a formal expression of interest to get one of the remaining positions.

    So I guess I should be grateful the chemo has stopped so I can focus on a different fight for awhile.

    Never rains but it pours, eh?

    Wish me – and my colleagues – luck  we’re going to need it.

  • October 2026
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    Yesterday we were under an orange heavy rain warning, and it was certainly wet. This morning, though, the westerly winds have mostly blown the clouds away.

    I’m not sure it comes through on the video, but the wind is creating white caps on the waves heading out of the harbour even as the tide comes in.

    wind in the trees and across the water

    Not a day forflying kites, the wind would either crumple it before you got it up, or tear it from your hands in seconds

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    I’ve just had the phone call I was waiting for… and still basically have no news.

    While my case was on the agenda for yesterday it seems that the cases before mine took longer than expected to deal with so they didn’t get to me, so we’re waiting for next Wednesday now.

    Another learning for today: while I had excellent and almost immediate updates after MDM sessions from my private specialists in the past, apparently for the public side I can expect to be calld with an update  “by the end of the week”, meaning it could well be Friday next week before I have any actual information.

    So we just settle in, and we’ll know more when we do.

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    Quick post to say I’ve heard nothing so I guess I’ll hear tomorrow.